SODERE HOT SPRINGS RESORT

The day before we left Ethiopia, we took a trip outside Addis Ababa to get a taste of rural Ethiopia. Tsehaywota hooked us up with a driver and Yoseph, from Compassion, went as our guide.  Our destination was Sodere Hot Springs Resort, about a 110 km or 68 miles east of Addis.  As we drove, we discovered the highway traveling east is the main route to Kenya and heavily traveled by diesel trucks.  We were glad we had an excellent, friendly driver, Sammy from Bama Tours.  We thought the name was pretty funny since we came from "Bama" fan country.

Even with an excellent driver, it was still quite disconcerting to see oncoming large vehicles as we constantly passed slower trucks on the road.  We passed the remains of a couple of major head on collisions and the fact that the van did not have seat belts made us feel a bit insecure to say the least. A few times we saw vehicles go off on the side of the road to avoid oncoming traffic.


It took us quite awhile just to get out of the city before we began to see the countryside. The first houses we saw were spread apart and still built out of blocks or sheet metal.

As we descended from Addis Ababa, which sits at about 8000 feet above sea level, to drive down into the beautiful Rift Valley, the rural houses looked like small round huts with thatched roofs.

We passed villages with small open-faced shops and melon stands along the roadside.

We observed farmers out in their fields stacking straw left from the harvest of the grain, Teff.  The large mounds were a beautiful golden color.

We saw farmers transporting their straw in carts pulled by small skinny, 13 hand, Abbyssinian Gala horses or on the tops of little donkeys.  Donkeys were often seen being driven along the side of the road carrying large jugs of water.  The horses trotted on the highway along with traffic pulling two-wheeled carts filled with people or farm goods.  A couple of times we saw old, bony used up horses standing lethargically along the roadside or in the road median.  Yoseph told us they are sometime left to fend for themselves when they are no longer of use.  People also were seen all along the road walking to a destination unknown to us.

We often passed farmers driving their herds of oxen or cattle.

So given what I have described, how long do you think it took us to drive the 68 miles to Sodero Springs?  If you guessed 3 hours, you were right!  Such a long drive required a bathroom stop in the beautiful city of Nazreth, a city of about 600,000 people.  Ethiopia does not have rest stops so we stopped at a nice hotel.  In exchange for their hospitality, we also stayed for coffee and sodas.

Not long after our stop we reached our destination.  Yoseph kept asking us if we wanted to buy soap and we kept thinking "Why in the world do we need soap?"  When I think of hot springs, I think of the mountains with a cold river running through it and hot springs bubbling up in it.  One just jumps in and swims in the mixture of hot and cold water.  So we passed on the soap and drove up to the springs.  A lady quickly told us that the men's area is separate from ladies so I had to go by myself.  I walked down some concrete stairs, bathing suit in hand, to a surprising site of three mostly naked females bathing with their soap under hot water spurting from pipes into a concrete structure. Too embarrassed to change into my bathing suit, I dipped my feet in the water a couple of minutes and hurried back up the stairs to sit under the shady trees.  Later, we walked over to the Awash river running next to the baths and were glad that we weren't required to get in it either.  I think I read it has alligators and hippos in it.

The resort also had an Olympic size pool but we declined swimming.  Later, I felt bad that we didn't offer to stay and swim so Yoseph and Sammy could enjoy swimming.  They probably don't have the same access to pools as we do in America.  They assured us that they didn't like to swim so that made me feel a bit better about our oversight.

The highlight of the resort though was monkeys!  There were monkeys everywhere, in the trees, on our van and trying to get in our van.  They were so cute.  We had some crackers so we fed them but quickly learned they would try and jump on you to snatch the entire pack!  One small child made the mistake of stepping on a monkey tail and 3 other monkeys quickly came to the monkey's defense as the child's mother quickly snatched her child up to safety.

Our second highlight of the trip was stopping in a field on our return trip to see a mother camel and her newborn baby.  The farmer and his nephews came up to see what we were doing and allowed us to take pictures for a few Bir.

On the way home, Yoseph wanted to stop at a nice resort on a lake for coffee.  The resort was gorgeous but overpriced.  They wanted 200 Bir each because we could only have coffee if we bought a complete recreation package.  Needless to say we took our pictures there and drove on.

Here are a couple more scenic pictures from our trip.

And finally, here are David, Sammy and Yoseph at a more accommodating hotel having coffee and cheering to a successful trip!

COMPASSION

On Thursday of our trip to Ethiopia, we visited Compassion.  Tsehaywota Taddessee, the country director, treated us to smooth, creamy Macchiatos and a roasted barley snack.  I'm not a coffee drinker but the Macchiatos were absolutely delicious!  He gave us an power point overview of their work and then showed us around the office.  One things we observed as we passed through the hallways was the camaraderie of the employees as they gathered together at coffee break stations in the hall to talk and laugh together. David actually ran into someone in their IT department that he had met previously at a Compassion global summit. It is a small world!

After visiting the headquarters, we were driven to the Compassion project, Amist Kilo Mekane Yesus Church Development.  It is operated by the Ethiopian Evangelical Church Mekane Yesus, a Lutheran church. Compassion always partners with local churches in assisting children in impoverished areas.   We met the Reverend and the project director who treated us to a coffee ceremony.  Reeds are placed on the floor to show hospitality to one's guest.  The small freshly brewed cups of Ethiopian coffee were served with sweet popcorn.  The boys liked this!

Following our ceremony, we went out to the courtyard to meet the children who had just been dismissed from school.  Seventy plus kids swarmed around us, all wanting to shake our hands.  What joyful and welcoming little children!  We thought how cool it would be if the boys could sponsor a child that they met there and stay in correspondence.  The director matched them up and we took pictures only to find out later when we arrived at home that the two boys were recently sponsored and the paperwork just had not reached the project yet.  We still hope to find another match from the same project.

Matthew 18:2-4 - He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them.  And he said:  "Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.  Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven and whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me."

ADDIS ABABA

This week has been busy getting back and getting ready for Christmas but I wanted to write more on our Ethiopia experience. I also want to note that we did not get to meet the girls' grandfather. We were told that he is a protestant pastor from a very rural Southern area and it took him 5-6 days of travel just to get to court. He had already left for his return trip when we arrived.

Ethiopia was an amazing and incredible experience for the entire family. We arrived late Saturday night and soon discovered it would take us 3 hours to get through the visa line, customs, baggage and out of the airport. David stood in the visa line while I watched the boys sleep, sitting up against a wall. There was no order to the flow of the line and I noticed that David did not move at all as people unobtrusively merged in front of the polite Americans in front of him! Twice the power and lights went off in the crowded airport. We thought that might delay things if computers went down but later discovered the officials using old fashioned desks, pens and paper to issue visas.

Our travel guide described Addis Ababa as “shambolic.” It is a city of 6 million people and very little urban planning. The majority of the residences are corrugated metal sheds with no modern conveniences. Eucalyptus firewood is used for cooking and the early morning air is filled with smoke from the fires. Many concrete structures stand unfinished. Some have flimsy wooden trestles against them for the workers to stand upon as they construct. A modern building may be haphazardly thrown in among all the other types of structures. Small individually owned shops line all the streets. The vendors come out to passing cars and try to sell their wares through the open car windows. Furniture shops consist of dusty old furniture placed alongside the road. 

 A touch of rural is also seen in the city as men drive their small donkeys down the street and through the traffic. One might find a cow foraging for a scrap of grass next to the road or goats being driven through the streets. People line the streets at all times of the night and day.

Orderly chaos describes the flow of traffic. We saw maybe one stop light during all of our outings. Intersections are not 4 way stops but every man for himself as each vehicle jostles their way through the intersection. There are few traffic lanes and the number of lanes of traffic vary depending on what is blocking any one of the lanes. Diesel fumes fill the air. Blue and white taxis pervade the streets. After watching the flow of traffic we better understood why it took us so long to get our visas at the airport! Both systems lack rules and consist of merging. I would not be bold enough to ever drive in Addis! I thought it interesting that Toyota vehicles dominated the streets. Clearly the people know what type of vehicle runs for a long time!

Traffic does not yield to pedestrians. People trying to cross the heavy lanes of traffic remind me of the game frogger. I was amazed that we did not see anyone hit during our week's visit although we saw many come quite close. I even saw small children crossing the street by themselves. At one point, a crippled man scooted out on his rear into traffic trying to approach our car for a handout. Traffic was often at a standstill and women with their babies would come asking for help for their babies. It is against the law to give them money and I spent many sleepless nights in tears as I thought of the verse from Matthew 25:45: “He will reply, “I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.” A few times I snuck a pack of crackers out the window and was met with grateful eyes.

Despite all the poverty we came across, we saw such beauty. Even though traffic was chaotic, the drivers were overly patient and calm and it seemed to work for the most part. They had a system in all the madness. The Ethiopian people are some of the most beautiful I have ever seen. Both the men and women have beautifully refined features and smooth light chocolaty brown skin. I did not see one over weight Ethiopian. The people seem accepting of their life circumstances and know no other way of life. They are incredibly friendly. Their beauty is reflected in their colorful baskets, clothes, scarves and other items. Our visit really opened my eyes and confirmed how much we take for granted in America and how self-absorbed, materialistic and wasteful a large majority of people are in America.

We visited an Ethiopian Baptist church with the director of Ethiopia Compassion. It was an amazing experience to watch the people joyfully worship with no time constraints. Tsehaywota took us back to the hotel after 2.5 hours and church was not even over. Tsehaywota translated parts of the sermon to us and the topic was on living a life of faith and service to God and not for ourselves. He spoke of not compromising our faith with what the world says is acceptable and redeeming our time by living for God such as the apostle Paul. These are all messages that God has impressed upon my heart the past few years.

The hotel food had a mixture of western style food (cooked differently from what we are used to) and national food. David, Michael and I enjoyed a few national dishes. Stephen went on a starvation diet that he made up for upon our return! After a few days of looking at the same menu, it was difficult to get an appetite up for any particular dish. We had to remind ourselves that we were lucky we had food to eat as many of the people outside the hotel were probably living on one scanty meal a day, or less. We also observed that the children at the care center ate the same lunch daily, injera bread with lentil sauce on top.  Injera is a flat sourdough type bread made from a super grain called Teff.  It is highly nutritious.

We were treated to an outing up nearby Entoto Mountain. It is the highest point in Addis. - above 10,000 ft. elevation. The former Emperor had his residence and Orthodox church at the top. As we drove up the mountain, we saw women slowly walking down the mountain with enormous bundles of eucalyptus firewood on their backs. They go up the mountain, cut the wood, fasten it together and carry it down. They are only able to make one trip a day. It looks like back breaking work and only for a meager amount of money that they are able acquire from selling the firewood. Eucalyptus trees are grown because they reach maturity within just a few years. As you can see from the photos there is a huge disparity between the Ethiopian church and castle compared to European cathedrals and castles.  The people pictured in front of the castle are two other families that traveled with us and our driver.

That pretty well summarizes what we experienced in Addis Ababa.  Of course, most of our time was spent at the care center and our hotel.  Next time I will tell you of our trip to Compassion and the rural countryside.

ANNOUNCEMENT

 We are pleased to announce the addition of two new beautiful daughters, Rebecca Bethlehem and Kathryn Jerusalem.  That now makes us a family of eight.  We first met them in person on Sunday after our arrival late Saturday night.  All the kids were in the court yard so it was a bit chaotic that day and we could not really tell if they understood we were their new family.  They are both quiet and shy but as the week went on and we were given one on one time with them, they warmed up to us.  By Wednesday, Bethlehem was looking back to make sure I was following her to lunch and by Saturday she was possessive of us and pushed the other children away.  Jerusalem will take more bonding time since she is older.  She avoids eye contact but sneaks in quick peeks and then quickly looks away.  She loves to interact with the other older girls but did seem to enjoy spending time with us when they were in school.  David did the best job of engaging her in play.  It was difficult leaving them on Saturday.  We had someone explain that we were coming back so hopefully they understood.  They have a limited English vocabulary of maybe a few hundred words.

We had an amazing week in Ethiopia but are glad to be back home.  Both boys loved going to the care center and wanted to stay longer.  They also want to go back for a cute little boy they enjoyed playing with in games.  Surely God answered our prayers for the experience to sow seeds for missional hearts in them. Thank you again for your prayers during our trip.  I will post more about our week later.

PRAISE!!!

We have a praise!  The girls' grandfather made it to court so all systems are on go.  We take off tomorrow at noon.  Thank you so much for your support and prayers.

I may not be able to update from Addis since we don't have a laptop or any other gadgets but I will journal and fill you in when we return.

Goodbye!

T, L, AND Z UPDATE

Good news!  T, L and Z all have pending adoptions now and I've learned that two of the families live near us.  How cool is that.  It will be fun for our girls to have friends nearby that they new at the Care Center in Ethiopia.

This is the last week for the auction to raise funds for the three families adopting these older boys.  http://tlcfortlz.blogspot.com/

We are still praying that the girls' Grandfather will make it to court this week.  However we did find out that our court date will remain the same regardless of when he travels.  We just won't pass court until he does make it to court.

Last week I was feeling quite anxious about things and God sent me a strong message about worry at Sunday's service.  The pastor said we worry when we have a wrong perspective, focus and priorities.  Boy was that convicting for me because I could pin point my misplaced earthly perspective and my focus on the negative (what might go wrong).  How easily it is to forget God's past provision and that He is sovereign and in control.  No matter what happens, He will keep His promises and guide us to the end of this journey.

Thank you for your prayers for these wonderful boys and our family.

PRAY

Yesterday the other two families who are traveling with us learned that their birth family court date on the 24th went as planned.  We did not hear anything until today.  Our agency informed us that the girls' Grandfather did not make it to court and is rescheduled for December 1st.  They will know by Wednesday if he makes it to Addis.  They said this is not unusual to see and for us not to be concerned.  We would still appreciate your prayers that he is able to travel and everything goes as scheduled and planned.  He is quite aged.  Our flight leaves on the 2nd.  Pray for our girls as they see him one last time too.

Other prayer requests:

• Michael has come down with a cold so pray for good health for our entire family now and during our travel.
• Travel safety, timely flights and rest on the airplane.
• A positive meeting with our girls and that we will be well received.
• For the birth family meeting - we hope to meet their Grandfather and would love to meet siblings too.  We are told that will be unlikely but praying that it will be possible.
• A smooth court process.
• Our time with touring with Compassion and that God will grow missional hearts for our boys during the trip.

Thank you for your prayers and walking along with us on this wonderful journey of adoption.

A GREAT LOSS

Today we learned that a family who was adopting a 4 year old girl, had the same court date as us and lived near us lost their referral.  An Aunt came and claimed the precious girl.  They already had the same experience with a boy referral earlier this year.  We met this family a couple of weeks ago when they joined us for dinner.  They were so excited about their upcoming travel, but understandably  apprehensive that another loss could occur.

Those of us adopting, know in our heart that it is usually best if a child can stay with their family and in their country but that doesn't make the loss any easier when it happens.  My heart breaks for this family.  I've had two miscarriages and have experienced loss and grief.  Because the adoption process is so long and their court date was within two weeks, this family's loss would be more like carrying a child to term and then losing the child during delivery.  Please pray with us for their great loss.

It is so hard to understand what is happening when things don't go the way we intended for them to go.  I know I felt things were hopeless and futile for our adoption earlier this year.  But when we cry out to the Lord in our pain, He hears our voice.  He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).  His plan is always perfect and He is in control.  "Surely just as I have intended it so it has happened and just as I have planned so it will stand (Isaiah 14:24).   In John 13:7 He said, "You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand."  Meanwhile He keeps our lamp burning and turns our darkness into light (Psalm 18:28).  His Word is a lamp to our feet and a light for our path (Psalm 119:105).  He calls us to live by faith and not sight (2 Corinthians 5:7).  He calls us to surrender our will, lay it on the altar and listen for that small voice behind us that says "This is the way, walk in it." (Isaiah 30:21)  These are all verses in which I found comfort during my own time of darkness.

When we started our adoption, we heard a sermon about the call of adoption.  The speaker said some people who are called will have a road of ease and some a road of suffering.  He pointed out all the great people of faith who answered God's call as noted in Hebrews 11; they answered God's call but still encountered much suffering along the way.

Just because we encounter trials does not mean that we are outside the will of God and His plan for our lives.  We live in a fallen world with much pain.  In her book "Kisses from Katie," Katie says being a Christ follower means being acquainted with sorrow.  We must know sorrow to be able to fully appreciate joy.  Joy cost pain but the pain is worth it.  After all, the murder had to take place before the resurrection."  Katie, who experienced the loss of an adopted child,  also said "This life is beautiful and terrible and simple and difficult, and He is using it for His glory."

Along the same lines, a principle from my BSF teaching leader the other day was "When we rely on the Holy Spirit, we have a new spiritual perspective that helps us be obedient to God's call, to have perseverance that gets us through the tough times and learn from our failures and have peace that comes as we trust God with every result."

Please keep our two girls and their birth family in your prayers as the birth family court date comes up in two days.  Pray that God's will be done for our lives and theirs.

READY!

Here are the pictures of the girls' completed room.  Now we just need two little girls to bless it with their presence!  I also hope to get some decor for it from Ethiopia to make them feel more at home.

Orphan Sunday

Today is Orphan Sunday and the one year anniversary of our adoption journey.  It was on Orphan Sunday last year that both of us were positive that God was calling us to adopt.  Today we celebrated Orphan Sunday with a luncheon at our church, joining other families who have adopted, are in the process of adoption or those who are just seeking more information.

Today we are rejoicing that the older boys in my previous post, T & L, have adoptions pending!!  Be sure and check out the upcoming silent auction to raise funds for their adoption.  I understand there have been some very nice donations that will make great Christmas gifts.  (http://tlcfortlz.blogspot.com) Continue to pray for a family for Z.

Today we are praying for the orphans in Sudan.  Our friends' organization Make Way Partners provides love, protection, education, housing and food for these orphans under very difficult and dangerous country circumstances.  Furthermore, the east African draught has caused their food costs to soar and they are raising funds to compensate for the food crisis.  You can learn more at www.makewaypartners.org.

Today we pray for the 15 million orphans of the world who have lost both parents.

Today we rejoice that we can make a difference in the lives of two little girls and give them the family that they have lost.  We are thankful that they will change our lives forever.

Today I rejoice over my own spiritual adoption.  God tells me in His Word (Ephesians 1:5-7) that He decided long ago to adopt me as His child.  He did it because of what Jesus Christ did for me and it pleased God to do it.  He freely gave me His grace because of the One He loves.  I have been set free because of what Christ has done.  Through His blood my sins have been forgiven.  John 14:18 records Christ's promise before He went to the cross not to leave us as orphans.  I am thankful He was faithful to His promise and that through Him, I have my inheritance; I am born again as a child of God with all the special privileges and responsibilities of a daughter of the King.  Praise God for the Grace He lavished on me!!!